Cultivating Sexual Desire In Monogamous Relationship

Esther Perel, a therapist, compares relationships between partners to learning the world: “because [there are] two sets of needs [that] we are born with. Our need for connection, our need for separateness, or our need for security and adventure, or our need for togetherness and for autonomy… at some point all of us need to go out into the world to discover and to explore. That's the beginning of desire, that exploratory need, curiosity, discovery… Details...

List Of Kinks Fantasies And Their Definitions – An Analysis of Real Stories

By reference to the afore-listed definitions one may single out a basic thing that they have in common: at the very least a kink is something that ignites sexual desire. Various kinds of sexual experience that were described in the stories we have analyzed for writing this article were organized into 5 conceptual categories. You may find our structure to have omitted your sexual preference. And in case your favorite kink is not on our list - come send us your story;). Details...

Compersion - A New Word In Alternative Relationships

“Compersion” is a notion that can be thought of as the opposite of “jealousy”. It is a positive emotional reaction to relations of the other one in that he or she enjoys sexual desire experienced with another partner. It is probably close to a feeling that we have when a person we love attains the goals he has set in the professional field, or the way best friends rejoice at each other’s success. Compersion as a concept is used in the framework of alternative relationships (polyamorous relationship, open relationship, non-monogamy relationship) in that partners can in open and aware manner afford having a diversified range of feelings to more than one partner. Details...

Threesome Sex Ideas: Stories, Statistics, Terminology

Talking about threesome and proposing it is a thing not so common. Those wanting to deal with embarrassment and other emotions associated with this delicate subject may use the following ideas to start a dialogue on threesome: the unique language that is used by people who practice 3some; statistics – the things about threesome that sociologists are interested in; funny threesome stories - something that participants of the juicy process share. Details...

Why Do Unicorns Love Kinks? World Of Sex Games

In this article you will find many reasons to smile, as we approach sex as a fun game. We really enjoyed the rule of "Three G" by sex researcher Dan Savage who described the main components of sexual pleasure as «GGG It stands for Good, Giving, and Game». We translate this in such a way: Be good in bed, Give time and fun equally to each partner, and Play. The ability to trust your dreams and desires to your partner, to realize the most daring of your fantasies - all the secrets of sex are in your openness. Relax and talk to us about sex - feel free to interrupt, ask questions and play. Details...

Invisible Sex

Have you ever thought about how many sexual undertones there are in what you see and hear? In usual, everyday things, words, symbols, objects? In order to provide you with a basis for such thoughts, I'll let you try a piece of this sexuality pie with art, literature, music, and mythology flavor. Details...

Imagination – Switch

You choose what to call your body and the people around: with words that arouse sexual imagination or soothe it. "Broads" or "goddess", "doodle" or "source of pleasure", "boobs" or "resilient hills", "man" or "god"... Change your reality with us! Details...

Polyamorous Relationship Dictionary Meaning — For More Than Two

I can bet that the most familiar relationships for "more than two" to you are "open relationship" or "casual relationship". Here’s the usual definition for such relationships — partners who can be in love and have sexual relationships not only with the main partner, but with his/her permission. In such a couple there is no condemnation of love, sex, flirting with third parties, but these third parties are not invited to the couple, and don’t become a part of the basic relationship. Details...