Alternative Sexuality: a broad term that encompasses non-traditional gender identity and sexual orientation as well as the issues that deal with crossover of gender and sexual expression, unusual sexual practices (BDSM, other kinks) and non-monogamous forms of relationship. Details...
Extreme adherents of monogamy very much enjoy the myth that tells polyamorists to be born this way. Yet the idea of a certain generation ‘p’ that has some specific gene mutation and is from its early years aware of the desire to have a family of more than two does not look anything like real stories shared by polyamorists. One may believe Franklin Veaux who represents himself as the one who’s never been in any monogamous relationship to be a born polyamorist, but he is rather an exception, not the rule. Details...
Travelling is not just visiting some other country but immersing in a new environment and gaining new knowledge about this not yet explored realm. Living out one’s threesome fantasies gives a chance to learn much new about how the representatives of your gender behave during sex, about the specifics of your orgasm depending on how many people there are in the process, about whether the attitude to a long-term partner changes in case you see him or her in the hands of someone else… Details...
Esther Perel, a therapist, compares relationships between partners to learning the world: “because [there are] two sets of needs [that] we are born with. Our need for connection, our need for separateness, or our need for security and adventure, or our need for togetherness and for autonomy… at some point all of us need to go out into the world to discover and to explore. That's the beginning of desire, that exploratory need, curiosity, discovery… Details...
By reference to the afore-listed definitions one may single out a basic thing that they have in common: at the very least a kink is something that ignites sexual desire. Various kinds of sexual experience that were described in the stories we have analyzed for writing this article were organized into 5 conceptual categories. You may find our structure to have omitted your sexual preference. And in case your favorite kink is not on our list - come send us your story;). Details...
“Compersion” is a notion that can be thought of as the opposite of “jealousy”. It is a positive emotional reaction to relations of the other one in that he or she enjoys sexual desire experienced with another partner. It is probably close to a feeling that we have when a person we love attains the goals he has set in the professional field, or the way best friends rejoice at each other’s success. Compersion as a concept is used in the framework of alternative relationships (polyamorous relationship, open relationship, non-monogamy relationship) in that partners can in open and aware manner afford having a diversified range of feelings to more than one partner. Details...
Talking about threesome and proposing it is a thing not so common. Those wanting to deal with embarrassment and other emotions associated with this delicate subject may use the following ideas to start a dialogue on threesome: the unique language that is used by people who practice 3some; statistics – the things about threesome that sociologists are interested in; funny threesome stories - something that participants of the juicy process share. Details...
In this article you will find many reasons to smile, as we approach sex as a fun game. We really enjoyed the rule of "Three G" by sex researcher Dan Savage who described the main components of sexual pleasure as «GGG It stands for Good, Giving, and Game». We translate this in such a way: Be good in bed, Give time and fun equally to each partner, and Play. The ability to trust your dreams and desires to your partner, to realize the most daring of your fantasies - all the secrets of sex are in your openness. Relax and talk to us about sex - feel free to interrupt, ask questions and play. Details...
Have you ever thought about how many sexual undertones there are in what you see and hear? In usual, everyday things, words, symbols, objects? In order to provide you with a basis for such thoughts, I'll let you try a piece of this sexuality pie with art, literature, music, and mythology flavor. Details...
You choose what to call your body and the people around: with words that arouse sexual imagination or soothe it. "Broads" or "goddess", "doodle" or "source of pleasure", "boobs" or "resilient hills", "man" or "god"... Change your reality with us! Details...