You may have nothing in common with BDSM-culture and sexual practices of domination and submission. But even in this case there might be some feeling of inconsistency about the concept of BDSM occurring to you. This practice is often associated with causing pain and humiliation. Actually, this is the way BDSM is defined in the Merriam Webster dictionary... Details...
“Making love with a woman and sleeping with a woman are two separate passions, not merely different but opposite. Love does not make itself felt in the desire for copulation (a desire that extends to an infinite number of women) but in the desire for shared sleep (a desire limited to one woman).” Details...
Tao Ruspoli spent quite a lot of time since 2014 shooting a documentary Monogamish which is a one and a half hour long talk about monogamy and sexuality. The director asks the questions to get answers of the sexpositive world icons: from bestselling authors teaching us about sex and relationships to lawyers specializing in sexual rights and scientists studying gender issues. It is a multiple narrative that looks into the theory and practice of monogamish relationships from all sides of the spectrum. Details...
Porn video is the first source of information that forms one’s vision of sex. Artificial porn gives rise to misleading information. Yet both porn-industry functionaries as well as advocates of sexual education are becoming interested in creating sex-positive porn. For instance, this is what Cindy Gallop and her Make Love Not Porn project actually do. And we also vote for porn that is more art and less artificialness Details...
Here are two different stories of Mary and Daniel. Mary is an example of how partners who have started from having an open relationship decided to try monogamy. While Daniel has told us the story of transition from monogamy to open relationship. Details...
If you see sexual fantasy as something healthy and exciting, then you’re in good company. Our app, Fantasy App, let’s you share your sexual journey and experience the adventures of others. After all, we’re all on a sexual journey--no reason we shouldn’t share it. Details...
While we (authors of Fantasy App) love things that’ve been customized to fulfil a specific person, situation, game or fantasy. Thus in stereotype sexuality we don’t trust. What we trust in is personal character. And for those on the same wavelength we’ve collected and hereby share a bundle of Instagram sex-positive accounts that feature sexuality not falling under stereotypes. Details...
When we took up the challenge of open relationship and welcomed a third person into our family we did not know that design of any plan starts from its last point. Now we understand this, and consider it to be an essential rule of open relationship – says Dan, 35, designer of the idea of changing his marriage to Anna into an open one. This is a story of open relationship that we learn from a group of three. Here Dan and Anna are a couple with two years of official marriage under their belt, and Sophie is their lover who’s been next to them over recent 8 months Details...
Our sex-positive blog Fantasy has already tended to definitions of open relationship, consensual non-monogamy, non-consensual non-monogamy, monogamish, swinging and polyamory. However the questions coming from readers tell there is a strong interest in the difference between the following notions: monogamish vs open relationship. Details...
The ideas of monogamish, polyamory, open relationships and compersion sometimes take by surprise even most educated and open minds. While swinging has been the “gold standard” of non-monogamous relationships of the last 200 years. Many couples know about it–and many couples have tried it at least once. This can be verified by more than 20 swingers dating apps one can find on AppStore and Google Play. Details...