HOW TO HAVE ETHICAL SEX ON VACATION
Sex travel has long had negative connotations, but as the sexual liberation movement sweeps the world, travel sex is changing.
No longer is it about seedy bars and dark back alleys. It’s becoming more about sexually liberated young people exploring their sexuality in an ethically conscious way.
In fact, you may find travel sex to be one of the most exciting and fun experiences you have ever had.
A growing number of women travel abroad to experiment, as sex travellers become younger and more LGBTQ than ever before. Many of them even choose to take their vacations alone.
Sexual liberation is taking all kinds of forms, and today we’re going to tell you how to have ethical sex while on vacation.
Ethical Travel Sex is Possible
You might be wondering exactly how travel sex is going to work, especially if you’re not planning on spending a fortune in a brothel any time soon.
It may surprise you to learn that travelling while horny is transcending the view of men visiting sex workers in Asia, Africa, and the Caribbean. It doesn’t have to be a fetishized pursuit of “exotic” people anymore.
As people of all ages and sexual persuasions begin opting for travel sex, they find themselves challenging long-held stereotypes and beliefs, turning what was once a seedy, unsavoury practice into a more conscious activity that prioritizes consent.
“If you'd told me back in 2017 that I'd spend the next two years visiting a host of different clothing-optional, adult-centric resorts, I probably wouldn't have believed you. I'm the kind of person that doesn't even like changing in public at the gym," says Simone Paget, writer for the Toronto Star, who has found travel sex “liberating.”
“I met other women like me who don't necessarily feel the need to define their desires one way or another," she said. “I could make out with a man one day and a woman the next, and literally no one cared. This was revelatory to me.”
Many young people are starting to question their reasons for travel sex, stopping themselves if their desires stem from a fetish for hooking up with someone from a foreign country. This means having sex with people who are sexually attracted to them, not ones who have to be coerced by money.
And while it can be hard for the uninitiated to think of a place other than the seedy establishments that have long been ingrained in popular culture as sex tourism hotspots, they do exist.
A ton of resorts around the world encourage and promote ethical travel sex, providing a safe, non-judgemental environment for you to engage in just that.
These resorts are havens of sexual liberation. They allow you to explore your deepest desires and fantasies in a safe space, meaning that no one gets hurt.
The resorts themselves have rules to ensure that everything that goes on within their walls is ethical, giving everyone peace of mind. Many enforce strict boundaries between staff and guests with regards to sexual consent, with some flat-out banning any sexual advances towards their staff.
Their commitment to creating a safe environment for everyone is part of their policy. Anyone who behaves inappropriately, either towards staff or other guests, will be taken aside for time-outs.
Not only that, but many of these resorts are now more welcoming than every to people of all sexual orientations – so it’s no longer just straight people who get to have all the fun. Take the iconic resort in Jamaica, Hedonism II, which regularly hosts LGBTQ travel groups, swinger parties, and festivals, giving everyone a chance to have the naughty fun they’re always dreamed about.
Gabrielle Noelle, a White writer in her twenties and Bi Girls Club founder, discovered an incredible time at Hedonism II.
“Everyone was so friendly and comfortable, it almost felt like another world," she said. "I felt a lot less shame or second-guessing.”
Patrice J. Williams, a 30-year-old Black writer in New York, also loves clothing-option travel sex, because, as she puts it, “When I'm back home, I can be walking from the gym in sweats, but men still harass me. It was extremely comfortable knowing I could be totally naked and men wouldn't assume I was providing an invitation for sex. My experience certainly made me more willing to openly express my curiosities and hear about other people’s lifestyles.”
But, as always, it’s best that you do your research beforehand to ensure that the resorts you’re choosing are indeed friendly towards whatever your sexual persuasion is.
One of the most important things to remember for ethical sex travel comes down to one word – respect. Preconceived notions can lead to hurtful stereotypes or ideas, especially where sex is concerned, so just keep in mind that everyone you meet is also a person that deserves the same respect that you do.
We’re all human, and the sooner more people realize that, the sooner we can challenge long-held ideas of those who may be different to us and start becoming more accepting.
Ethical sex travel is possible and can even be a liberating experience for all people, no matter what they identify as--many resorts out there challenge commonly held beliefs and ideas. All you have to do is be respectful and understand the concept of consent.
We’ve also included a list of places and resorts that encourage ethical travel sex for you to get started.
Most Suitable Travel Sex Destinations
Desire Riviera Maya Resort – Riviera Maya, Mexico
This clothing-optional resort in the strikingly beautiful Riviera Maya area of Mexico has long been a haven for people looking for travel sex.
Known primarily as a swingers resort, there are plenty of other like-minded couples there looking for fun, meaning that you and your partner have the chance to engage in plenty of sexual pleasure.
When enjoying the playrooms, you can head to the bars and restaurants to work on the thirst and appetite you worked up beforehand.
Temptation Cancun Resort – Cancun, Mexico
Known world-wide as a “playground for grown-ups,” this is an awesome place to go if you’re looking for travel sex.
Nestled among the natural splendour of the incomparable Cancun, this all-inclusive resort is anyone’s idea of a dream holiday. With pleasingly abstract décor and a variety of themed nights, shows, and performances happening every day, you’re sure to find some fun here.
And when you want to be pampered, head down to the spa to let the capable, friendly staff make you feel like royalty.
Senses Private Club – Punta Cana, Dominican Republic
Located on the Eastern Coast of the Dominican Republic, this is the place to go if you’re looking for an adventure. Guided tours by some of the world’s most capable guides will take you through a region you’ve got to experience to believe. Meanwhile, the resort itself will give you all the chances you need to take care of your sexual desires.
Don’t forget the private pool and large jacuzzi either, as you lounge around with beautiful people and enjoy your vacation in style.
Cap d'Agde Naturist Village, France
In the picturesque town of Agde, located about 18 miles away from the French city Montpellier, lies one of the naughtiest places around.
World-renowned for its gorgeous marina, for its sparkling blue waters, and for being one of the stops of the Tour De France, people looking for ethical travel sex can find it in spades. It has one of the biggest naturist resorts in the world, which is located at the tip of the village, also known as Cap.
It’s a place where you can truly let go of your inhibitions and explore your sexual desires among a ton of like-minded people from all over the world. You can do so by checking into hotels like the Naturist Spa Hotel, a popular place for swingers and non-swingers alike.
Various events, such as foam parties, are also held every night at a few of the sex-positive night clubs in the area. During the day, you can head down to the naturist beach to chill out in the sun.
Ada Bojana, Montenegro
Nestled among beautiful rock faces at the mouth of the River Bojana in the Adriatic Sea, and surrounded by sparkling, crystal-clear waters, the island of Ada Bojana fits the very definition of paradise.
It is also one of the world’s most exciting naturist complexes.
You can enjoy endless sandy beaches and some of the world’s most beautiful sunsets, all while engaging in ethical travel sex with people from all over the world.
Travel Sex Tours
Sometimes you just want your entire itinerary crafted for you. That’s where a travel sex tour comes in.
Multiple companies out there sell all-inclusive packages that will act as the prefect adult holiday. These happen around the world, from a stay in the Mediterranean to a Caribbean cruise, offering something for everyone.
Simply find one online, select the perfect package for you, and purchase the naughty holiday of your dreams.
Hopefully we’ve proven to you that ethical sex while on vacation is possible.
You just have to be respectful of everyone you meet and make sure you’re heading to the right destination.
With these things in mind, you can have the travel sex of your dreams in a picturesque setting.
It’ll definitely be a holiday to remember.
But sometimes the problem isn’t the holiday, it’s finding the perfect travel companion.
Finding the right person to go with is always hard to do, especially if you’re planning on a kinky, sexy holiday.
That’s where Fantasy can help.
Simply create a profile and match with people who share your kinks, allowing you to meet up with new partners even when you’re overseas.
The fun doesn’t stop there, as the app lets you create chat rooms to share your experiences, make friends, and discover new ways to explore your sexual desires around the world.
If you have any interesting tips for having ethical travel sex, be sure to share it with us in the comments.