New York City Venues: Where Sexual Fantasy May Come

While preparing our review of European sex-positive venues (Eyes Wide Open: A Guide To Kinky Clubs And Kinky Parties) and after the article had been published we were receiving heaps of references from all over the world telling about places, clubs and resources for acting out one’s fantasies. And this is how we’ve found the capital of sex-positive world–New York. Details...

The New World: Places To Act Out Your Sexual Fantasies

In Europe they would prefer to see you dressed according to strict code, but shall later allow you to go naked. In the USA you may come to a kinky party in your office garments, but not every club shall welcome your public undressing. Sex positive clubs of Europe are often open for new visitors, while in America you shall in most cases have to register beforehand. In Europe they have no alcohol restrictions, yet a US sex event does not imply drinking lawlessness. Details...

What is a Kink?
100 years of Kinks Evolution

Sex-positivity of our generation together with possibility of searching for one's sexual fantasies (kinks) and living them out have their historical background. Our ability to wonder “what is a kink?” and “what is my kink?” is owed to sexual revolutions. And sexual revolution of the XX century started earlier than you may think: Wilhelm Reich coined and described the term “sexual revolution” in the 1930-ies. It evolved to the full extent only some 30 years later, having granted to kinksters the freedom of expression and the inner right to experiments. And in the beginning was the culture of pin-up. Details...

Eyes Wide Open: A Guide to Kinky Clubs and Kinky Parties

Having decided on going to a kinky-party the next issue you need to consider shall be: how do you undress for passing face-control? Logics would suggest an image that either represents your own kink or complies with kinks of other people. And this is almost the case J. Different fetish clubs have the rules of their own, and image only may not suffice – you also need to know a proper place to go). Details...