How To Start A Threesome – The First Threesome Experience
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My sexual partner resembled Danny DeVito: he was short, bald and had a paunch - so yes, I shall proceed to call him Danny; but during the entire period of courtship I could see him flirting with other women and receiving a good deal of approving looks in return for his compliments. It was obvious that if it were not for me beside him, he could have seduced any of them. Danny made no bones of the fact that I was not the only one. I was aroused by the idea that the day before, when calling me to invite for sex with him, he was getting with another woman. Finally, one day he came up with a proposal of trying a threesome.
I was scared. I knew that being by his side would make me horny, but logic suggested I could not guarantee my having desire for a stranger. However I turned a deaf ear to logic because thinking of future threesome experience still made me excited. He sent me a photo by e-mail: a curvaceous nice-looking blonde with large breasts. He didn’t write the name of the girl, just a nickname that he thought up.
Danny took the arrangement of the meeting into his own hands. We met in a rented apartment, with some fruit and a bottle of Martini to give courage... She had a soft voice, soft hands and soft look. I was relieved to see them both calm so that I was the only person worried. It wasn’t their first threesome, not by a long shot, so I trusted him and let him take the lead.
It didn’t become my favorite kind of sex because I haven’t stopped there. Today it is the role of a movie director that takes my fancy, and three are just too few for this fantasy of mine. However there were many things that I took from this first try and came to love. And I shall be having threesome as soon as I want to once again experience and share with my partner the amazing feelings and moments of:
- losing control when there are four hands caressing you and giving you an orgasm;
- surprise when you are on top and she suddenly cuddles to your back and starts moving in tune, sensing and repeating each of your moves, even those that occur inside;
- gratitude for her stretching your body out at the moment of orgasm;
- care when the other woman pours a sip of champagne from her mouth into your dry lips;
- tenderness when I take a break and just watch two beautiful bodies having sex next to me.
I'm glad to remember this first experience in detail, no matter how many years have passed and how many threesome stories there were after. It is tough to estimate what I could be missing now given that I had not ventured it then, but just an idea of staying a “threesome virgin” scares me: that I could have lived without further experiments and without new people who made me learn to squirt (a woman) and to forget – little by little, with every new experience – about jealousy and about treating the body of another person as something that I have a title to. And now I know how to start a threesome.
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