Cultivating Sexual Desire In Monogamous Relationship

Esther Perel, a therapist, compares relationships between partners to learning the world: “because [there are] two sets of needs [that] we are born with. Our need for connection, our need for separateness, or our need for security and adventure, or our need for togetherness and for autonomy… at some point all of us need to go out into the world to discover and to explore. That's the beginning of desire, that exploratory need, curiosity, discovery… Details...