Should all fantasies be fulfilled?
Some fantasies just shouldn’t be fulfilled — namely, anything that breaks the laws of the country where you have citizenship.
But for anything else, we advocate taking a conscious position that doesn’t fall on the extreme ends of the spectrum. Starting a fantasy at the exact moment that it occurs to your head (or a lower body part) may have the same adverse effect as holding onto a fantasy for a prolonged period of time without acting on it. At the end of the day, the author of the fantasy has to decide which desires to satisfy and when.
However, we must also bear in mind the fact that, according to sexologists, it’s unhealthy to have just one fantasy or one fetish throughout our entire lives. It’s also unhealthy to desire any sexual action that inflicts psychological or physical damage.